How to ask a girl out
Some boys still have this false belief about girls. They believed that some girls are difficult and for that reason hard to ask a girl out. This is a common myth among such people. The reality of it is that most girls are not that receptive to being asked out even on a first meeting because they have brains.
They know you are asking them out not because you just want to but because of how beautiful they are and this is the same reason why no one would like to approach someone having self-image problem.
What do you know about her?
Asking a girl out is not a problem but knowing who she is. In order for you to be successful, you have to know certain things about her for a start. If you're not familiar with her, you can still start by showing some interest in some of her activities or if you can manage to know who her friends are you will equally know who she is. Based on psychology, it happens this way because people tend to make friends only with those who behave or act like them. So knowing her friends will equally mean knowing who she is and the best style of approaching her in this regard.My friend and I went out one Sunday to a nearby malt and ordered two bottles of juice. While we were enjoying ourselves, a certain girl walked passed outside. My friend saw her and immediately followed her. I didn't know who she was but I knew my friend very well that he wanted this catch. After a few while he got back with her contact# and home address. It didn't end there because I really wanted badly to know who she was so I asked him few questions. Among all the questions I asked, what really moved me was when I said "How did you managed to get a new catch and her contacts so easily like that even for the first time?" When he said " I have known her for some time now without she noticing me. She used to play handball for the school team so after introducing my self, I started from there, appreciating her work and before she knew, I had diverted the discussion" As you can see from this illustration, my friend got her because he knew few things about her and talking on that makes her feel relief. So by knowing few things about a person makes your chances high even to make friends
Step-by-step procedure to ask a girl out
As you can see from the above illustration, asking a girl out is not that difficult if you appear to know little about her and applying the right approach. Prior to the above, I am going to explain detail steps below which when combined, You will certainly make it if you appear to be a little more courageous:
- Just appear to be confident: A research was carried out on the approach of girls between guys who lack confidence and confident guys. After the survey, it was proven that girls are more vulnerable to guys who appear to be confident in front of them. And that is the same reason why most people who appear to be confident and know what to say usually win even in debate. So if you can appear to be confident or know much about what you are saying, she will definitely fall for you within your first or second attempts.
- Make eye contacts: Standing by someone's sight can release certain sweet hormones in the person which can make he or she starts developing love for you and the same thing happens here. If you can managed to make enough eye contacts then she will begin to notice your interest and when the right time comes to approach her, she would have already known what you want to say and the probability that she will accept will be very high.
- Where to take her: When asking a girl out there are certain things to be aware of but I will talk only on where to go if she accepts your proposal. So you have to know where to take her and what will happen there will act like some kind of language power when trying to change her beliefs.
- Show some privacy: In order to avoid her turning you down, you must understand the circumstances in which she is. Therefore, ask her in relative privacy out of others. This way she won't feel the pressure of her friends judging you or her. It also would make things a lot easier for you.
- Be fair in your judgment: The common fact among girls is that, not every girl will want to go out with any guy. Girls generally have some sort of standard regarding what guys they will go out with and conversely what guys they won't. Sometimes it's as superficial as how someone looks. But in case she refuses just immediately divert the topic to other things. This process here is logical. That is you will be indirectly appearing to be the hard to get type.
As you can see, asking a girl out even for the first time is not all about persuading her ups and downs. That will just be as trying to get her while at the same time making her feel uneasy. To summarize all this short, you must know few things about her then you will equally get the right approach.
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