How to find your soul mate
When I talked about how to find a soul mate/the one, I am talking nothing but the process by which you can follow in order to have someone you want in life. Before that I want you to know that if youíre still single not yet married or involved in any relationship, know that it does not matter how your facial features are or how your appearance is.
This has nothing to do with it. Itís just because you have not yet met the right partner and this is what I am going to discuss today in this article.
Why canít I fall in love with someone?
Why am I not meeting the right people? Why canít I fall in love with someone? Before you can understand this process better, you must know why we fall in love only with certain people and not just anyone. For example, if you were looking for a soul mate and found someone (the opposite sex) even being so nice and loving, you won't fall for him if he does not match your soul mate criteria.
Soul mate criteria are those qualities that we unconsciously search for in others such as traits, physical appearance before falling in love with them. As you can see anyone not matching your criteria up to a certain extent will hardly be a better match and anyone matching the highest of them automatically becomes the best match. If the person appears to be too nice, he will never go beyond just a friend and nothing more.As you can see from the above, those who ask these questions are not those who stay 24/7 at home expecting to hear a big knock on their doors by their soul mate. But when those who are socially popular and interactive still ask this same question, then this is because they have been going to the wrong places and meeting just the wrong people.
How to find your soul mate
Finding another soul mate for yourself is not that knotty as some people believe. It appears to be so among these people because they lack enough clues about it but today I will show you some of the simplest way to begin as a start. Below are some facts that are backed by deep research and proven to be true:
- What do you know about yourself? What are you expecting of your soul mate? What are you looking for? This is so because before you can find a soul mate, you must first know who you are, the things you like about yourself and those traits/criteria that you wish to see in your soul mate. In order not to fall for the wrong person, you must understand this process since this is what will guide you in finding the right match.
- Are you going to the right places? After examining yourself and those criteria of the other person, you will know where such people usually are. To do this you will need to improve certain things about yourself and this is nothing more than either taking yourself up/down to their levels so as to be a suitable match for them as well. When youíre done with that, start visiting such places from time to time. For example, when a business is about to lunge a new business, he examines the type of business and considers who his customers are going to be before starts operating. If he discovers that the majority of his customers are youths, he starts targeting his adverts towards schools, social networking sites etc. and the same thing happens when finding a soul mate. You also target where such people are and try to interact with them.
- Socialization and finding a soul mate: From the above mentioned, you will notice that finding a soul mate won't work properly if you have not learned how to socialize with other people. To summarize this you have to come out of your shelf and start going out and meeting new faces. If your problem is that you are not social, then know that you have been avoiding people in most of your life and in order to stop this habit you must learn to interact, smile and talk to others (see how to make friends).
If you still cannot get into a social group, then start associating with your popular friends because by doing so, you will indirectly stand a chance for you or your soul mate to discover each other. This is so because people tend to love those who are popular, friendly or interactive. If you managed to adapt yourself to some of these principles, within the shortest time possible, without knowing you will get someone you truly love.
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